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I posted that I was super-frustrated about this on my facebook status update, and a few people mentioned that their houses have also experienced ladybug attacks. Well, at least I am not alone in this. Not that it makes it any better. It's raining outside today, and I am hoping that it would prevent them from coming out again today or in the future (well, at least until spring). We'll see...
( A couple more cool pictures here )
- Mood:
shocked
( More yummies over here )
For the menu I am planning a bunch of different bite-sized tea sandwiches and some sweets. It's not going to be a ton of heavy food, since I scheduled it to be after normal dinner time (6.30-8.30).
Here's what I am thinking for the tea sandwiches:
-- Pineapple Cream sandwiches on Boston Brown bread
-- Apricot Ham sandwiches on french bread
-- Spring Radish sandwiches on pumpernickel bread
-- Cucumber sandwiches on french bread
-- Egg salad sandwiches on pumpernickel bread
-- Chicken, cranberry and pecan sandwiches on sourdough bread
For sweets I am a bit more stumped. I am thinking:
-- Brownies
-- Cupcakes with colorful spring-colors frosting
-- Mexican wedding cookies
-- Small chocolates
-- Lemon squares (one of the ladies offered to bring)
-- Chocolate-dipped strawberries (thanks for your suggestion, Mandy :)
Then, of course, the tea and coffee with all the fixings.
Am I missing something? Does it seem like enough varieties or not enough? Would you add more sweets or should it be enough calories for the evening? :)
I'l have to take some pictures on Saturday to show you all how it all turns out :)
- Mood:
contemplative

2009 St. Patrick's Day Parade's Grand Marshall
New Haven, CT
March 15, 2009

I love to travel. My husband and I have done a lot of traveling in these past 10 years, all across north America, Europe, Russia and other former USSR republics, some African countries, and even central American countries. We have always tried to do it frugally, even when we felt like splurging a bit. Most of this advice comes from personal experience, and as you'll see, if you are willing to not be picky in your travel plans, but choose flexibility instead, it can save you a lot of money in the long run. Seeing the world doesn't have to cost an arm and a leg. Here are some specific suggestions on how to save money while traveling.
- Travel light (that way you won't have to pay for luggage, now that most airlines charge for even the first bag checked). You can always buy toiletries or even an extra shirt at your destination. Keep carry-on well-organized and down to the sizes required by the airline to avoid having to check it at the gate.
- Be flexible in your travel plans and be prepared to travel last minute (Many agencies offer various "hot deals" on last-minute and unsold cruises or tours). A lot of travel companies might be getting desperate as the departure date draws near and they still have some unsold seats left. Very often they would rather get something than nothing, and you could benefit from getting a nice tour at 70-80% off.
- Take a bus tour of a region (like Europe or several neighboring states in the US). Although you might have to spend some nights on the bus, you would certainly save on the hotels. And the travel companies usually don't put 2 nights in a row into a tour schedule so you could always rest well on the in-between nights at the hotels.
- Be sure your passport is current. There are very few countries that require Americans to have visas, but if you are planning to travel to one of those, you would need to make sure your visa is taken care of. Otherwise with your passport in hand it would be easy to take advantage of any last-minute airline or hotel deals.
- Participate in the "home exchange" programs. On this program you can offer your house to another family traveling to your area and you can stay at theirs while you are traveling. This would save a lot of money on the hotels.
- Try to plan places where you will have your meals in advance, especially if you have children traveling with you. Many restaurants offer "kids eat free" with paying adults, so that would save on costs as well. Also consider having your larger meal of the day during lunch hours, and something smaller for dinner. Lunches are usually MUCH cheaper than dinners and portions might be a bit smaller, but it is not always the case.
- Take advantage of the museums, galleries, parks, etc. on your traveling route that don't require admission fee or that have considerable discounts for families or younger children.
- Check if the tour you want might be cheaper to book from Europe (for example, if you want to go to Egypt or Turkey it's much cheaper to book it there, then just watch for deals on plane tickets from the US to Europe that come up often).
- If you are booking a week at a sea resort very often 5-star, all-inclusive resorts might be only slightly more than 2 or 3 star hotels (especially if you are not attached to a particular hotel chain, and are willing to try a hotel that is running a special at the time). But with all the meals and drinks included (and usually those 5-star resorts offer way more and nicer amenities than their lower-star counterparts) you might actually end up saving money overall.
- If you are traveling outside of the US, do not exchange currency to the one of your destination within the US. You will get a terrible rate, much worse than you would get even at the airport upon arrival. Instead try to ask at your hotel upon arrival what the best place to exchange currency close to them is (usually airports give very bad exchange rates also). Very often hotels would exchange the money for you at a very reasonable rate.

I have found that the best way to save on your airline tickets is to be a bit flexible with the dates. Although complete flexibility is by no means required, being flexible to fly 3 days before and/or after your desired dates might save you hundreds of dollars. I always check http://www.kayak.com/ for the best deals. To allow for the ultimate deal search, you would need to register on their site, but it's free and only takes a couple of minutes. After you've registered and logged into your account you can then search for "flexible dates" (up to 3 days before or after your desired travel dates). This site also allows you to include nearby airports in your search. Sometimes flying out of the airport 70 miles away from you instead of 50 might also save you a lot, if it's a larger airport. But it isn't always so, so be sure to check the "include nearby airports" checkbox to see if your closest airport might only be a few dollars more than the one farther away. And sometimes smaller airports are nicer to fly out of anyway just to avoid the rush and long lines of a major airport.

For car rental deals be sure to check http://www.carrentals.com/. They come up with deals much better than most major travel sites, like travelocity or orbitz and the credit card is not required for a reservation. They are also known for $8/day rental rates at many major airports. We've rented our cars while traveling from this site quite a few times now, and you can always ask for a AAA discount when you get to the car rental place, on top of their already low prices (of course, if you have AAA membership, as the car rental place can always ask you for your AAA card :)

In one of my older posts I featured some of the beautiful children's book illustrations done by Tina McNaughton. Another one of the illustrators I like and would like to feature today is Jan Brett. Her books always have such pretty and very detailed illustrations! We own quite a few of her books and we always enjoy checking them out of the library too.
On her website she always has a lot of coloring pages and activity pages to accompany her different books or for different holidays. Those always provide loads of fun for children who (at a younger age) just like to scribble on them or making detailed drawings for older kids. Some of the activities featured on there involve not only coloring, but also mini-projects, like making your own bookmark or designing your own hat.
She also has a lot of educational materials on her site, like various flashcards and printable games for kids.
So be sure to check out her website for a lot of kid-oriented activities and your local library for a lot of her wonderful books. Here are some of our favorite books written and/or illustrated by her:
1. The Umbrella (my son especially liked reading it after our trip to Costa Rica last spring)
2. The Hat
3. The Mitten
4. Berlioz the Bear
5. On Noah's Ark
6. The Night Before Christmas
7. The Owl and the Pussycat
8. Town Mouse, Country Mouse
9. The Three Snow Bears

My husband and I have been talking about putting in a larger garden this year than we've previously had (tomatoes, cucumbers, some herbs and a few berries, but quite a few flowers to have pretty cut flowers in the house and to give to friends). This year we wanted something more, although both of us knew how much work would be involved. I kept watching for the time that the seed packets would appear in stores (and he kept shopping and ordering from Gurney's catalog :) He got some money for his birthday for ordering fruit trees and bushes that he wanted and he got some seed packets too, but those were quite expensive.
This last Monday when we were at Walmart, I noticed that the seeds were out in the garden section. There were some for $1.5 each, some for even over $3. But these ones I found were only 20 cents a packet. These are smaller seed packets, but we were able to find a very large variety of vegetables, flowers and herbs. Some of my favorites I even got 5-6 packets of. I guess my thinking goes along the lines of that if we even get one pumpkin from a package of pumpkin seeds, that's still cheaper than buying a pumpkin at the store or orchard in the fall for decorative purposes (none of us really like to eat pumpkins, but I like to use them for fall decor). Same goes for the rest of veggies. I ended up buying over a 100 seed packages! After that we went to Lowe's and bought a few more packages of herbs (of the ones Walmart didn't have). We also bought different fertilizers, potting soil, etc. I'm planning to put herbs in the pots and pretty containers. That would allow me to either keep them inside (even if I wanted to start them now) or take them outside in the summer and move them around the yard into either sunny or shady spots.
Here's a list of all the different seeds we now have (some, like I mentioned, are several packets). I can't wait to have them start growing and have yummy veggies and fresh herbs this summer!
( Long list )